Resources
Free tools and trusted organizations to support your family.
Free Resources
Family Readiness Checklist
A comprehensive pre-departure checklist covering legal foundation, policy awareness, technology setup, financial preparation, and the critical conversations to have before move-in day. Complete ideally 60–90 days before departure.
Essential Scripts & Protocols — Parent Edition
Word-for-word conversation scripts for talking to your son about Title IX before college. Includes the conversation framework, how to handle objections, the friend group protocol, location sharing agreement, and a quick reference of key phrases.
Essential Scripts & Protocols — Student Edition
Tactical scripts for students — the night-of self-check, the morning-stay rule, morning-after texting protocols (green/yellow/red), the wingman protocol, and exactly what to say if contacted about an allegation.
Morning After Texts — Student Edition
Annotated text exchange scenarios showing what to send, what to screenshot, and what never to say the morning after. Includes a bait text quick-reference table and caring check-in guidance that won’t create risk.
If It Happens: First 24 Hours — Student Edition
What to do the moment you are contacted about an accusation. Covers the exact words to say, what not to do, how to help your parents and attorney, and common mistakes that create unnecessary risk.
If It Happens: First 24 Hours — Parent Edition
A step-by-step response guide for when your son calls. Covers the first conversation, contacting an attorney, what to preserve, coordinating across Title IX and criminal proceedings, and support resources.
Quick Reference & Wallet Card
A printable wallet card and phone screenshot with the four immediate steps if contacted about an allegation. Print it, cut it, carry it. Screenshot it and save it to your phone.
AI Prompt Series for Analyzing Your University’s Title IX Policy
Six ready-to-use prompts for Claude or ChatGPT to help you analyze your specific university’s Title IX policy. Upload your school’s policy and use these prompts to understand definitions, rights, processes, and practical scenarios.
Recommended Organizations
FACE (Families Advocating for Campus Equality)
FACE (Families Advocating for Campus Equality) provides support, guidance, and resources to families navigating accusations of sexual misconduct in educational institutions. Their volunteer hotline connects you with parents and advocates who have been through it. When we found FACE during our research, we heard the same thing from every family we spoke with: they wished they’d found this organization sooner.
Title IX for All advocates for fair and transparent campus disciplinary processes and provides public education and policy resources.
Recommended Reading
A curated list of books and articles for further study. Coming soon.